This kid…

Some kids go to sleep with a blankie or a stuffed animal. And though Lane has both of those, tonight he chose to go to bed with a book in his arms. Why? Cause on the cover is a silver sticker of a guy with glasses and a beard. Lane thinks it's "daddy" so he wanted to sleep with the book tonight. My heart grew tenfold. This kid never ceases to amaze me. That's just a small indicator of how today has gone. And we needed a day like today. This past weekend was hellacious. For what ever reason, Jess and I's patience had just run out. Lane wouldn't listen,…
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The new routine

Over the past week Jess and I have been consistent with our routine, discipline, encouragement, and interactions with Lane. It took some getting use to on all of our parts, but things are finally starting to click. No longer is there kicking and screaming when going to bed. He doesn't fight the sheer mention of going in bed. It's still not perfect, and he still comes and gets in our bed at random hours of the night, but it's light years ahead of what it was a week ago. In addition to the nights getting easier, Lane's mood in general this weekend has improved. Certainly he still has outbursts of…
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And another thing

Lane has decided that anytime between midnight and 4:30am, it's a good idea to come and get in bed with Jess and I. This has been going on for at least a week now. It was kinda cute at first, and it still is very endearing, but the nut check kicks are starting to lose their appeal. I have no qualms about Lane sleeping in bed with us, especially since it's a large bed. However when Jack gets here in November we will be nursing a baby and Lane will need to hang in his big boy bed. This may mean that one of resume our position bedside for a…
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The night time struggles continue

Last week I posted about the new night terrors. Well, things haven't gotten much better. At first we tried forcing him to stay in the bed and we just dealt with the tantrums and crying. Now, we've resorted to sitting in the room with him again. Initially we didn't want to do this as we figured it would lead to a dependency on us always being in there when he went to bed. On top of that, when we did stay in there it felt like an eternity. Of course this was back when he first transitioned into the toddler bed. Now that he's gotten in his twin bed, the…
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This kid…

Some kids go to sleep with a blankie or a stuffed animal. And though Lane has both of those, tonight he chose to go to bed with a book in his arms. Why? Cause on the cover is a silver sticker of a guy with glasses and a beard. Lane thinks it's "daddy" so he wanted to sleep with the book tonight. My heart grew tenfold. This kid never ceases to amaze me. That's just a small indicator of how today has gone. And we needed a day like today. This past weekend was hellacious. For what ever reason, Jess and I's patience had just run out. Lane wouldn't listen,…
Read More

The new routine

Over the past week Jess and I have been consistent with our routine, discipline, encouragement, and interactions with Lane. It took some getting use to on all of our parts, but things are finally starting to click. No longer is there kicking and screaming when going to bed. He doesn't fight the sheer mention of going in bed. It's still not perfect, and he still comes and gets in our bed at random hours of the night, but it's light years ahead of what it was a week ago. In addition to the nights getting easier, Lane's mood in general this weekend has improved. Certainly he still has outbursts of…
Read More

And another thing

Lane has decided that anytime between midnight and 4:30am, it's a good idea to come and get in bed with Jess and I. This has been going on for at least a week now. It was kinda cute at first, and it still is very endearing, but the nut check kicks are starting to lose their appeal. I have no qualms about Lane sleeping in bed with us, especially since it's a large bed. However when Jack gets here in November we will be nursing a baby and Lane will need to hang in his big boy bed. This may mean that one of resume our position bedside for a…
Read More

The night time struggles continue

Last week I posted about the new night terrors. Well, things haven't gotten much better. At first we tried forcing him to stay in the bed and we just dealt with the tantrums and crying. Now, we've resorted to sitting in the room with him again. Initially we didn't want to do this as we figured it would lead to a dependency on us always being in there when he went to bed. On top of that, when we did stay in there it felt like an eternity. Of course this was back when he first transitioned into the toddler bed. Now that he's gotten in his twin bed, the…
Read More

This kid…

Some kids go to sleep with a blankie or a stuffed animal. And though Lane has both of those, tonight he chose to go to bed with a book in his arms. Why? Cause on the cover is a silver sticker of a guy with glasses and a beard. Lane thinks it's "daddy" so he wanted to sleep with the book tonight. My heart grew tenfold. This kid never ceases to amaze me. That's just a small indicator of how today has gone. And we needed a day like today. This past weekend was hellacious. For what ever reason, Jess and I's patience had just run out. Lane wouldn't listen,…
Read More

The new routine

Over the past week Jess and I have been consistent with our routine, discipline, encouragement, and interactions with Lane. It took some getting use to on all of our parts, but things are finally starting to click. No longer is there kicking and screaming when going to bed. He doesn't fight the sheer mention of going in bed. It's still not perfect, and he still comes and gets in our bed at random hours of the night, but it's light years ahead of what it was a week ago. In addition to the nights getting easier, Lane's mood in general this weekend has improved. Certainly he still has outbursts of…
Read More

And another thing

Lane has decided that anytime between midnight and 4:30am, it's a good idea to come and get in bed with Jess and I. This has been going on for at least a week now. It was kinda cute at first, and it still is very endearing, but the nut check kicks are starting to lose their appeal. I have no qualms about Lane sleeping in bed with us, especially since it's a large bed. However when Jack gets here in November we will be nursing a baby and Lane will need to hang in his big boy bed. This may mean that one of resume our position bedside for a…
Read More

The night time struggles continue

Last week I posted about the new night terrors. Well, things haven't gotten much better. At first we tried forcing him to stay in the bed and we just dealt with the tantrums and crying. Now, we've resorted to sitting in the room with him again. Initially we didn't want to do this as we figured it would lead to a dependency on us always being in there when he went to bed. On top of that, when we did stay in there it felt like an eternity. Of course this was back when he first transitioned into the toddler bed. Now that he's gotten in his twin bed, the…
Read More

This kid…

Some kids go to sleep with a blankie or a stuffed animal. And though Lane has both of those, tonight he chose to go to bed with a book in his arms. Why? Cause on the cover is a silver sticker of a guy with glasses and a beard. Lane thinks it's "daddy" so he wanted to sleep with the book tonight. My heart grew tenfold. This kid never ceases to amaze me. That's just a small indicator of how today has gone. And we needed a day like today. This past weekend was hellacious. For what ever reason, Jess and I's patience had just run out. Lane wouldn't listen,…
Read More

The new routine

Over the past week Jess and I have been consistent with our routine, discipline, encouragement, and interactions with Lane. It took some getting use to on all of our parts, but things are finally starting to click. No longer is there kicking and screaming when going to bed. He doesn't fight the sheer mention of going in bed. It's still not perfect, and he still comes and gets in our bed at random hours of the night, but it's light years ahead of what it was a week ago. In addition to the nights getting easier, Lane's mood in general this weekend has improved. Certainly he still has outbursts of…
Read More

And another thing

Lane has decided that anytime between midnight and 4:30am, it's a good idea to come and get in bed with Jess and I. This has been going on for at least a week now. It was kinda cute at first, and it still is very endearing, but the nut check kicks are starting to lose their appeal. I have no qualms about Lane sleeping in bed with us, especially since it's a large bed. However when Jack gets here in November we will be nursing a baby and Lane will need to hang in his big boy bed. This may mean that one of resume our position bedside for a…
Read More

The night time struggles continue

Last week I posted about the new night terrors. Well, things haven't gotten much better. At first we tried forcing him to stay in the bed and we just dealt with the tantrums and crying. Now, we've resorted to sitting in the room with him again. Initially we didn't want to do this as we figured it would lead to a dependency on us always being in there when he went to bed. On top of that, when we did stay in there it felt like an eternity. Of course this was back when he first transitioned into the toddler bed. Now that he's gotten in his twin bed, the…
Read More